Ya you heard it right, to be in or to be out. There is no halfway. If you are doing something do it completely else get out of it. Now you might be thinking in what context I m talking about. So it could be anything from your relationship to your career, from your own self to the society. Do it fully, either this way or that way. It’s your road and you are alone, others may walk with you but no one can walk it for you. If you expect the world to be fair with you because you are fair, you are fooling yourself. That’s exactly like ‘expecting the loin not to eat you just because you didn’t eat him’. Never be afraid to give yourself everything you have wanted in life. Set some goals, smash the shit out of them, and clap for your own damn self!
Things will never be the way we planed them to be. Every time they are like playing hide & seek with us. Be independent in every sphere of life whether it is physically, financially or emotionally. It took pretty good time to learn simple things in life. Things aren’t going to be easy if you want to stand out. It takes nothing to stand in the crowd but takes everything to stand alone. Remember if you ever need a helping hand it’s at the end of your arm.
No one is going to stand by you. Not even your friends so called life partners and sometimes even parents too. Its you who has to believe in that gut feeling that yes you can do something different apart from sleeping ,eating, TV, sex and partying of course. The only thing standing between you and your goal is the BULLSHIT story you keep telling yourself as to why can’t you achieve it. Today people aren’t lazy they simply have goals that don’t inspire them every morning. Pull out yourself from all sorts of time diffusers. Be it your own friends, TV, social sites etc. There are people in our lives who leave us out in the cold and get mad when we learn how to get warm by ourselves. So Stop running behind after someone who ditched you. Throw them out of your life. Don’t pay attention to your feelings and such people, they change with seasons & you need to move ahead with commitment. “Catch Flights Not Feelings”. Only a committed mind can accomplish a goal. Start blooming from the wound where you once bled And wake up everyday stronger than yesterday. Shut the doors from where the dust comes in and open those doors through which fragments of light and love come in. Face your fears and wipe your tears. There is so much to do, so much to explore in world. Start exploring the unknown and you will discover a new you. Don’t let the noise of others opinions drown out your own inner voice. It feels good to be lost in the right direction.
You have two choices, to control your mind or let your mind control you. A Mind can be your beautiful servant & a dangerous Master! Deep down inside there is a warrior. There is you -going against everything you once thought wasn’t even possible. Sometimes you have to die a little inside in order to be reborn & rise again as a stronger & wiser version of you. Who said you to become a serious human?? Life is not such serious matter. Start your day by looking in the mirror and giving a big smile to yourself. Sing, dance & celebrate, the very intention to celebrate will lift you and bring you in the present moment.
Life is short, be crazy be weird at your best. But learn how to be crazy without being the center of attention. Be brave enough to live different.
DONT STOP NOW!
Your breakthrough is right towards the corner. The last mile is often the longest one. So keep moving forward, and look for ways to pull ahead. Have faith in Almighty, miracles do happen , leave a room for them to happen & then see the magic happening daily in your life. Success occurs when your dreams get bigger than your excuses. “A last minute GOAL can change the entire game”. So try up to the last minute, anything can be possible because Destiny belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams and have the courage to pursue it. Don’t stop when you are tired, stop when you are done.
DON’ BE AFRAID TO STAND FOR WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN
If a plan A doesn’t work, alphabets have 25 more letters so stay relaxed & focused. Things often don’t happen the way we had planned. If life is throwing lemons at you show it how a lemonade business is being done. Some days you just have to create your own sunshine. As the law of attraction says -” when you truly want something and go after it without limiting yourself, the universe will make it happen”. Do yourself a favor; don’t be afraid to stand for what you believe in, even if that means standing alone.
Sometimes you need to be alone in order to find out who really are you and what you really want out in life. You are allowed to scream, cry but do not give up in yourself .start small, nail it & then make it big. Work hard, but make time for your friends, family, and love. Nobody remembers PowerPoint presentations on your final day.